QUOTE(Muskaan.C. @ Mar 13 2005, 10:18 PM)
Would you mind to give me an example what kind of role you mean?
If I will tell the roles straight away then Achibachi will go mad. so I will try to explain it in a nice way so that no one goes mad hopefully. I hav discussed thiz earlier If I will create two different machines or a software, I will know better about the requirements and functions of those machine. I will know how they can stay well and perform well or how good these machines are in doing different jobs. I know better how these machines can be destroyed or will not perform their jobs well. the problem is these two machines differ slightly in their functions.
I will make a user guide for them to help others understand my creation. if some one else trying to be clever just gets one of my machhine and makes it to perform functions of the other as well which I had not mentioned or not allowed in my user guide then he is taking risk and is creating a problem by misusing it and thus making me angry. As I m the creator or programmer I might punish that user as well coz the user went against my rules.
So Allah has created man and woman, they are having similarities and bit differences in their abilities. rest is ur job to compare this with the above example. The userguide for human i.e. man and woman is the Holy book Quran and Sunnah of Prophet Mohammed (PBUH).
In the life of Holy Prophet Mohammed (PBUH), different roles were given to men and women. Thats why a stable, powerfull and civilised society was emerged. (no democracy was there)
But now no matter men or women rules they r currupted. cozz they left real teachings of Islam.
QUOTE(Muskaan.C. @ Mar 13 2005, 10:18 PM)
okay, maybe you have seen that in real- I don't know..
And how the majority there is, * no comments*
Now to your statement that a country should not run by a woman.
AND that is really nonsense! - Sorry but don't you think that it is rubbish, what are you saying?
I mean just coz of ONE woman,who missused his power- joh merih nazroon meh wessih hi ek "badmash" type kih thi, and that's y your saying every Pakistani woman would run her country like that? I doubt that.
Why are you thinking so negative that no woman is able to run a country just because of that *.......*!
And have been the men better rulers? I even disagree with the kind of policy which is the current PM of PK is running.
just ZIA was all right.
so please bring some better arguements.
I gave banazir example coz she was the only women PM of Pak. If we take west where most of the women do men jobs, I dont really want to mention more here. U might see their society and might predict about their future. I see almost no difference in human or animal behavior there. I might not explain it in detail. I will leave on u to think about it.
QUOTE(Muskaan.C. @ Mar 13 2005, 10:18 PM)
btw. kabhi sunah hain, keh haar kam yaab mard keh peeche ek Aurat kah haat hotah hain?
Maynay kab inkaar kia hay is baat say, kab say yehi samjhaanay kee koshish karraha hoon. Kay agar aurat apnay roles play naa karay to koi mard kaamyaab nahee hosakta --> result no one wish to see.
Lakin takreeban har naakaaam mard kay peechay bhi aurat ka haath hota hay

i dont think u need examples. Here I m not mentioning every men and women.
QUOTE(Muskaan.C. @ Mar 13 2005, 10:18 PM)
nope, I haven't said that they would be better if they can replace a job what a men can do.noaway.. joh yeh sochtih hain bewekoof hain.
I don't know what kind jobs you mean, where a woman would start acting LIKE men. - really I don't have an idea. some examples please.
yep, it is out of topic but.... choreh, jab tak close nahin hotah.. discussion hi sehi..
bilkul it is related with the "original" thread..

I said if women will start doing mens job they will act like men, Think if a woman works fulltime 5 or 6 days a week like men, then after her job next thing to do will be to go to bed and sleep. then who will bring the kids up, who will do their tarbiat, etc I am sure u know Dads are not good at it. The kids (future) will be spoiled. If u think its schools job to bring kids up and do tarbiat totally wrong, its the mother whose responsibilty is this.
According to teachings of Islam: the key of heaven is under the feet of mother. Research on this saying u will get ur replies inshaAllah. I say this is coz our mothers has done a lot of hard work to bring us up and to do tarbiat of young muslims. in return we should respect them and obey them to get the key of success. but if mothers wont fulfill their responsibilities, how they can make their children obey them or respect them. therefor, no sucess for children.
For children: U will still get the key to success by respecting and obeying ur mom even if u think she has not fulfilled her responsibility. As it is said: Everyone will be punished or rewarded according to their deeds.