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 Sep 21 2009, 05:39 PM
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QUOTE(modern_newton @ Sep 21 2009, 11:24 PM)  i think try to get a guy who is cleaner or cook by profession  I've always wanted to marry a chef. It's always been a dream. Ahhh -------------------- Su vaat che?
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Sep 21 2009, 05:47 PM
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QUOTE(cozmik_chill @ Sep 21 2009, 05:39 PM) I've always wanted to marry a chef. It's always been a dream. Ahhh its natural that peoples find attrcation in someone who can do thing which you cannot  --------------------  |
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Sep 21 2009, 05:49 PM
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A house husband.. doesnt sound right 0_0
Ofcourse they should go to work. -------------------- Fact 501: Ruby wasn't bothered looking for another fact :O) and since that was a fact in itself, she decided to make it her fact.
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Sep 21 2009, 06:03 PM
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QUOTE(modern_newton @ Sep 21 2009, 04:13 PM) Well let ask you a question Would you be ok if your husband wish to raise kids,do all house work etc while ask you to earn bread and butter for family? will you respect his wish? Why would he want me to do that is the question. I would not like to switch the gender role and would rather prefer to run our home in a feminine manner. It really doesnt matter if men are good chefs, interior designers and baby sitters all over the world, the thing is tht a house becomes a home because of woman's personal touch. Ghar ko ghar khatoon-e-khaana banaati hein , mard hazraat ko jo kaam zaib nahee daita woh naa hee kerrain tau behtar hei. Jiss ka kaam , ussi ko saajhay ........ -------------------- Sometimes Time is motionless while existence is a painful throbbing thing. |
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Sep 21 2009, 06:15 PM
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QUOTE(Ayesha_786 @ Sep 21 2009, 05:57 PM) Why would he want me to do that is the question. I would not like to switch the gender role and would rather prefer to run our home in a feminine manner. It really doesnt matter if men are good chefs, interior designers and baby sitters all over the world, the thing is tht a house becomes a home because of woman's personal touch. Ghar ko ghar khatoon-e-khaana banaati hein , mard hazraat ko jo kaam zaib nahee daita woh naa hee kerrain tau behtar hei. thats good  I asked this question because there was war going on in GIQ that why it should be always woman who must have to stay home and raise kids ..Why cannot men do that? I wanted to know that will women let him do that role on full time basis? my mother once complained that my father dont help her in household activities and next day he started helping her but she was not happy with his way of doing house work and always criticised him and he said to me that your mum complain that i am not helping her and when i start helping her then she dont appreciate what i do and say that stay away from things you cannot do
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Sep 21 2009, 06:30 PM
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QUOTE(~Cinderella~ @ Sep 21 2009, 06:08 PM) Csaab - that can be discussed MN - women are tough to handle  you'll never understand them.. just give up oh so all of a sudden your options change
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Sep 21 2009, 08:29 PM
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QUOTE(choudhrysaab @ Sep 21 2009, 04:14 PM) even if he's that guy in your sig?  Dude why do you always have to derail a topic by changing the subject? -------------------- "You're a notorious little punk"- MsAflatoon
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Sep 21 2009, 09:04 PM
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its only FUN that way
-------------------- I'm A chUnkY mOnkEy frOm thE fUnkY tOwn |
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Sep 22 2009, 12:24 AM
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QUOTE(modern_newton @ Sep 21 2009, 07:15 PM) my mother once complained that my father dont help her in household activities and next day he started helping her but she was not happy with his way of doing house work and always criticised him . lol . Exactly my point. Women shud not expect their husbands to help them in households as men have to deal with pressures of job so its solely her responsibility to give him peace of mind when he comes home , but i also f eel tht responsibilities can be shared mutually if lady of the house is also bringing a paycheck. There won't be any problem of nagging if couple works as a team. I won't mind him helping me in hoovering on weekends and clearing after meal though =P -------------------- Sometimes Time is motionless while existence is a painful throbbing thing. |
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Sep 22 2009, 01:12 AM
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id love to be a house houseband, anyone want me? i actually take joy in cooking and cleaning and sitting vehla
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Sep 22 2009, 06:19 AM
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QUOTE(modern_newton @ Sep 21 2009, 11:47 PM) its natural that peoples find attrcation in someone who can do thing which you cannot Who said I can't cook? -------------------- Su vaat che?
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Sep 22 2009, 08:27 AM
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MN just made an assumption
-------------------- "Verily my happiness is my Imaan ... Verily my Imaan is in my heart ... verily my heart doesn't belong to anyone but Allah " -Asma bint AbuBakr
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Sep 22 2009, 09:05 AM
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Both of course.
-------------------- "I must be willing to give up what I am in order to become what I will be." - Einstein
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Sep 22 2009, 09:52 AM
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QUOTE(Radiance @ Sep 22 2009, 02:27 PM) MN just made an assumption No It was a fact, I can't cook.
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Sep 22 2009, 11:08 AM
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QUOTE(modern_newton @ Sep 21 2009, 02:46 PM) working husband who do house work as well WE see that all great cook are men ..all great scientist/Philosopher are men.. We Rocks men ahahhaha Thats because MEN cannot take it that a woman can outdo them in EVERY role so they fail to give credence where credence is due @ Cindi : I hear ya at having hubby home 24/7 ewwwwww imagine WORKING together too 
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Sep 22 2009, 11:12 AM
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QUOTE(Fakiri @ Sep 22 2009, 02:12 AM) id love to be a house houseband, anyone want me? i actually take joy in cooking and cleaning and sitting vehla Small crockery, nikkay paanday, cooking and cleaning is a full time task and u take pride in sitting vailaa ? how come its possible ? Vehlay bay keh tussi makhiyaan ee chalniyaa yaa pakhiyaan. . cooking aur cleaning kay liyye i am sure biwi kee absence mei maasi ko bulaao gay
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Sep 22 2009, 12:23 PM
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QUOTE(ApHrOdItE @ Sep 22 2009, 12:08 PM) @ Cindi : I hear ya at having hubby home 24/7 ewwwwww imagine WORKING together too My point exactly!!!! Wouldn't that drive you crazy?? Yeah I get pissed off when he is late or works too much, but i'd rather have that than him being at home 27/4 !! Ayesha - I agree with the part that we shouldn't expect men to help us cooking and definatly not cleaning. I have to do things over again if my hubby does it first.. Im never happy with his way of cleaning
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Sep 23 2009, 03:26 PM
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how come the girls are acting this way in this thread, but in the other thread u all were going insane?
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Sep 23 2009, 08:36 PM
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my husband is still going to cook for me...
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Sep 24 2009, 06:50 AM
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QUOTE(tharilist786 @ Sep 23 2009, 04:26 PM) how come the girls are acting this way in this thread, but in the other thread u all were going insane? Thats coz in this thread thus far I haven't given them the danda... yet. hahah. -------------------- “I am the punishment of God. If you had not committed great sins, God would not have sent a punishment like me upon you.” - Genghis Khan |
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Nov 7 2009, 12:16 PM
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Working Man for sure..
I am not a career orientated person but yet I have worked hard and well over past years despite all the hurdles.. I really dont want to work all my life.. So he better be working.. I just want to put my feet up and wait for him to come back with dinner ready and will be eager to have every night in his arms.. lol This post has been edited by Chamomile: Nov 7 2009, 12:22 PM |
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Nov 7 2009, 12:41 PM
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Kisi ne pocha "agar biwi shohar ko naukar samajh le to shohar ko kya karna chahiye" . . Jawab mila "shohar ko do char ghar aur pakad lena chahiye"
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